Why would you try to attempt to make things better by correcting my grammar and trying to tell a joke after deeply offending me so recently about someone I love? In what universe did you think I had forgiven you after you sent an apology and then didn’t respond when I asked you why you insulted my partner? I am still deeply offended by your comments, so acting light-hearted to attempt to calm the situation was a bad move. I never said I had forgiven you, so heck knows why you felt the urge to contact me so candidly and familiarly like nothing had happened. You insulted the person I adore the most above all else on this planet, I would literally have died without them. I would not be alive. The fact that you tried to act friendly (in a bizarre and quite frankly rude way) after being so utterly horrible and not receiving any forgiveness from me was another mistake.
I just want them to leave me alone. No more shitty comments and responses, I am usually extremely forgiving, but I never forgive those that upset my partner. We had to hide this from him because I KNEW something like that would devastate him. He’s been doing so well, I don’t want one persons significant ignorance to damage what little confidence he has. It takes so long to build him up, to alleviate his anxiety and stress, we both have to work so hard to get him to a comfortable state, so comments like that are dangerous and so damaging to his wellbeing.
That is why I am angry. It had to be said. It may appear to others that I’m overreacting, but you have to understand that conflicts like this can severely effect us both.
I hope you understand.